Changing your life isn't easy. It's really hard. I mean, incredibly hard.
For anyone who has seriously attempted to make some important changes in their life because they couldn't handle living in a similar way any longer, you've potentially experienced the growing pains that come together with deciding to live in an other way. You are consistently tested, you fail time upon time, and it's very tricky to see the world in the light of cheerfulness.
It doesn't necessarily demand to be that way.
You see, folk struggle with deep change because they don't know the proper way to act when the negative emotions start bubbling up. They believe that because negativism is occuring that they must be doing something wrong. No! Not remotely. In fact, if you are seriously wrestling and it hurts a little, you are doing things right. You're growing. You're moving past your comfort zone.
When you're going through huge changes, you're going to come across some gruelling problems. Agony is going to come out to play, your interior critic is going to run wild and free, and you are going to have some struggles. That is perfectly ok! That really means you are heading in the proper direction. Don't declare failure now when you're suffering discomfort. Keep going and see it all the way through and you will cross the finish line a transformed man or woman.
The "Frying Pan Of Life" is all about the way to get close enough to the pain to work with it without being consumed by it. When you are constructing a new life, old things tend to flow out and you have got to spend a good amount of time working with them. This is a natural part of the growing process. But you have to work with them because if you don't, you run the chance of allowing the past to sabotage your dreams.
So how does one do this?
You've got to get sufficiently close to the agony and experience it without getting totally consumed by it. You have got to be pleased to bring yourself to the painful places and let the thoughts and emotions swirl around you without taking you wholly out of the game. When you can do this, you give yourself access to the lessons and light that are held within that dark place.
This takes some skill and plenty of practice, but if you can actually spend a decent amount of time working in these dark areas with some compassion and love, you can defrost even the coldest of hearts.
For anyone who has seriously attempted to make some important changes in their life because they couldn't handle living in a similar way any longer, you've potentially experienced the growing pains that come together with deciding to live in an other way. You are consistently tested, you fail time upon time, and it's very tricky to see the world in the light of cheerfulness.
It doesn't necessarily demand to be that way.
You see, folk struggle with deep change because they don't know the proper way to act when the negative emotions start bubbling up. They believe that because negativism is occuring that they must be doing something wrong. No! Not remotely. In fact, if you are seriously wrestling and it hurts a little, you are doing things right. You're growing. You're moving past your comfort zone.
When you're going through huge changes, you're going to come across some gruelling problems. Agony is going to come out to play, your interior critic is going to run wild and free, and you are going to have some struggles. That is perfectly ok! That really means you are heading in the proper direction. Don't declare failure now when you're suffering discomfort. Keep going and see it all the way through and you will cross the finish line a transformed man or woman.
The "Frying Pan Of Life" is all about the way to get close enough to the pain to work with it without being consumed by it. When you are constructing a new life, old things tend to flow out and you have got to spend a good amount of time working with them. This is a natural part of the growing process. But you have to work with them because if you don't, you run the chance of allowing the past to sabotage your dreams.
So how does one do this?
You've got to get sufficiently close to the agony and experience it without getting totally consumed by it. You have got to be pleased to bring yourself to the painful places and let the thoughts and emotions swirl around you without taking you wholly out of the game. When you can do this, you give yourself access to the lessons and light that are held within that dark place.
This takes some skill and plenty of practice, but if you can actually spend a decent amount of time working in these dark areas with some compassion and love, you can defrost even the coldest of hearts.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to take the journey of your life? Dive into these life goes on quotes for some wise words on what it means to live honestly.
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