Expectations will be the death of us, it is said. When expectations aren't met, we feel the pain of emotional turmoil and disappointment.
All expectations may be related to a lack of self worth. What about when a murder takes place or where someone is abused? Is that behavior nurtured or is it the perpetrator's nature? Because of the pressure we may encounter from our caregivers when we are still very young, we then start to believe that something is wrong with us. In fact, this is untrue. Let's call this dynamic, Factor x.
When a desired result is not fruitful, some of us lose control and perform inhumane deeds.
This kind of behavior isn't in our nature. We acquired it. We are only good natured, whether as spirit beings or as physical souls, when we wouldn't wish anything bad on ourselves or others, or to anything. We almost don't stand a chance, though, with Factor x. Factor x only wants to disprove that something is wrong with us. Thus, although we are capable of being bad natured toward ourselves, to others or to things, that doesn't necessarily mean such behavior is in our nature.
Murder and abuse are extreme examples of such behavior: examples of what we learn so as to soothe our Factor-x. Factor-x has only one goal - to disprove that something is wrong with us, and it seems to do so at all costs - as can be seen from the destructive behavior (even toward our ourselves) that we can exhibit.
In essence, we are all good natured souls. Even though this is the case, we acquire destructive behavior in very many forms. All of these, with our Factor x contributing, are carefully and deviously nurtured and crafted - so cunningly that we're almost certainly of the opinion that it's in our nature to be destructive. But is it in our nature to be destructive, and thus inhumane?
All expectations may be related to a lack of self worth. What about when a murder takes place or where someone is abused? Is that behavior nurtured or is it the perpetrator's nature? Because of the pressure we may encounter from our caregivers when we are still very young, we then start to believe that something is wrong with us. In fact, this is untrue. Let's call this dynamic, Factor x.
When a desired result is not fruitful, some of us lose control and perform inhumane deeds.
This kind of behavior isn't in our nature. We acquired it. We are only good natured, whether as spirit beings or as physical souls, when we wouldn't wish anything bad on ourselves or others, or to anything. We almost don't stand a chance, though, with Factor x. Factor x only wants to disprove that something is wrong with us. Thus, although we are capable of being bad natured toward ourselves, to others or to things, that doesn't necessarily mean such behavior is in our nature.
Murder and abuse are extreme examples of such behavior: examples of what we learn so as to soothe our Factor-x. Factor-x has only one goal - to disprove that something is wrong with us, and it seems to do so at all costs - as can be seen from the destructive behavior (even toward our ourselves) that we can exhibit.
In essence, we are all good natured souls. Even though this is the case, we acquire destructive behavior in very many forms. All of these, with our Factor x contributing, are carefully and deviously nurtured and crafted - so cunningly that we're almost certainly of the opinion that it's in our nature to be destructive. But is it in our nature to be destructive, and thus inhumane?
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Emmanuel van der Meulen is a life awareness coach. He can assist you to learn more about healing the emotions. Request your free optimal life newsletter.
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