There can be no crime more despicable than abusing children. Too many parents find the responsibility of caring for an infant, toddler or teenager more than they can handle and strike out at their children in horrific ways. Often these parents were victims of abusive parents when they were growing up and have no other tools available to them for the task at hand. This lack of knowledge is not an adequate excuse for the pain they inflict on innocents. The children who survive and are able to rise above their situation are very often the best child abuse speakers.
The children of violent abusers have a history of enduring some of the most horrible treatment imaginable for most of their lives. Many run away from the abusers and others find emotional coping mechanisms that help them to survive until they are adults. The abuses they suffer may include beatings, starvation, emotional and sexual mistreatment from those who should be protecting and caring for them.
The abuse does not have to come from biological parents. Many times children are removed from one abusive home only to find themselves in another abusive situation at the hands of a foster parent. The abuses can come from siblings or step parents, close relatives or even their neighbors. Most children in these situations know instinctively that speaking about their plight will cause more beatings or abuses to occur and so much of the time these crimes go unreported.
Some survivors go on to be abusers themselves and perpetuate the same treatment on children or spouses of their own. Others use their life experiences to help others who may be in the same or similar situations. These individuals have been fortunate enough to find help with understanding what has happened to them and to channel that knowledge into programs designed to help others.
By speaking of trauma as well as the successes they have experienced in their lives they hope to motivate those in their audience to follow their path to recovery. Their goal is inspiring others and showing them that they do not need to continue suffering the left over effects of childhood.
By using the abuses of their life to become stronger they have been able to create lives lead by self reliant actions, pursuing literacy and the means to improve their lives and the lives in their communities and society as a whole. By using the strength and tools used as children they share the way they have overcome learned behaviors and reached the goals they have reached today.
The presenters of these programs are not limited to public audiences but also make it a point to speak at seminars and conferences attended by police and social services personnel. Their goal is to help authorities to identify situations where children are in jeopardy of being harmed. They provide insights into the behaviors that may imply that abuses are taking place in the home.
The goal of these advocates is to help stop the cycle of violence in families around the world. They share their stories with their audiences and help others to find solutions to their own private dilemmas. They believe that they have an obligation to those still suffering abuses to speak for them when they cannot speak for themselves.
The children of violent abusers have a history of enduring some of the most horrible treatment imaginable for most of their lives. Many run away from the abusers and others find emotional coping mechanisms that help them to survive until they are adults. The abuses they suffer may include beatings, starvation, emotional and sexual mistreatment from those who should be protecting and caring for them.
The abuse does not have to come from biological parents. Many times children are removed from one abusive home only to find themselves in another abusive situation at the hands of a foster parent. The abuses can come from siblings or step parents, close relatives or even their neighbors. Most children in these situations know instinctively that speaking about their plight will cause more beatings or abuses to occur and so much of the time these crimes go unreported.
Some survivors go on to be abusers themselves and perpetuate the same treatment on children or spouses of their own. Others use their life experiences to help others who may be in the same or similar situations. These individuals have been fortunate enough to find help with understanding what has happened to them and to channel that knowledge into programs designed to help others.
By speaking of trauma as well as the successes they have experienced in their lives they hope to motivate those in their audience to follow their path to recovery. Their goal is inspiring others and showing them that they do not need to continue suffering the left over effects of childhood.
By using the abuses of their life to become stronger they have been able to create lives lead by self reliant actions, pursuing literacy and the means to improve their lives and the lives in their communities and society as a whole. By using the strength and tools used as children they share the way they have overcome learned behaviors and reached the goals they have reached today.
The presenters of these programs are not limited to public audiences but also make it a point to speak at seminars and conferences attended by police and social services personnel. Their goal is to help authorities to identify situations where children are in jeopardy of being harmed. They provide insights into the behaviors that may imply that abuses are taking place in the home.
The goal of these advocates is to help stop the cycle of violence in families around the world. They share their stories with their audiences and help others to find solutions to their own private dilemmas. They believe that they have an obligation to those still suffering abuses to speak for them when they cannot speak for themselves.
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