One of the questions most frequently asked of life coaches is: "if I take a risk, how can I be certain that it will make me successful?"
The fact that the person is asking the question is the key to understanding their mental condition. What they are expressing is doubt about the outcome of what they are thinking about doing.
The enemy that they are facing when they consider their future is not an external enemy. It is the internal enemy of doubt.
From our NLP training we can be sure that if we set out on any new venture with a powerful belief that we're going to succeed there is a strong possibility that we will succeed. The difference between success and failure is just about always the strongness of our belief that we will succeed.
It is definite that without a strong component of self confidence we will never achieve our goal in any endeavour.
The question then is: "How do I create a robust belief within me?"
The answer is that: "you decide what you need to believe to succeed and you practice creating the feeling of belief that you're going to succeed." It is quite simply practicing making the feeling within you that leads to your managing to retain that belief.
Do not ask others whether you are likely to succeed, tell yourself that you are going to succeed. It isn't other people who have to do the work, or take the risks, or feel the discomfort, it is you. And the feeling which will sustain you through the hard times is the feeling of belief in yourself and the seriousness of what you are engaged in doing.
I always check out: "will this enterprise or product benefit other people?" If the answer's "yes" then I set out to find a way to offer the product or service to the people most likely to purchase my product, service or idea. All I then do is permit my belief in the worthiness of what I am doing to drive me forward.
The fact that the person is asking the question is the key to understanding their mental condition. What they are expressing is doubt about the outcome of what they are thinking about doing.
The enemy that they are facing when they consider their future is not an external enemy. It is the internal enemy of doubt.
From our NLP training we can be sure that if we set out on any new venture with a powerful belief that we're going to succeed there is a strong possibility that we will succeed. The difference between success and failure is just about always the strongness of our belief that we will succeed.
It is definite that without a strong component of self confidence we will never achieve our goal in any endeavour.
The question then is: "How do I create a robust belief within me?"
The answer is that: "you decide what you need to believe to succeed and you practice creating the feeling of belief that you're going to succeed." It is quite simply practicing making the feeling within you that leads to your managing to retain that belief.
Do not ask others whether you are likely to succeed, tell yourself that you are going to succeed. It isn't other people who have to do the work, or take the risks, or feel the discomfort, it is you. And the feeling which will sustain you through the hard times is the feeling of belief in yourself and the seriousness of what you are engaged in doing.
I always check out: "will this enterprise or product benefit other people?" If the answer's "yes" then I set out to find a way to offer the product or service to the people most likely to purchase my product, service or idea. All I then do is permit my belief in the worthiness of what I am doing to drive me forward.
About the Author:
Imagine a precision instrument that records the actions, words and feelings of the best performers. Then download that data to a powerful decoder that analyses and codes the behaviour. Transfer the code to your personal control panel so that you can reproduce excellence at will. This is how NLP Techniques work. NLP Practitioner David Ferrers will show you how to build your own control panel during Business Coaching, or at one of his NLP Training workshops or during NLP Practitioner Training in India.
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