A lot of guys struggle with not know what to text a girl you just met in order to get her to feel that same excitement and attraction that she felt when she first met you.
Wouldn't it be cool if you could get her to feel the same way about you that she did last night when you two first met? (To learn more about if a girl doesn't text you back, check out my article on what to text girls.)
Well, there is a way. It's called Call back humor. Call back humor is a flirting technique that you can use to bring a girl back into the same emotional state of mind that she was in when she first met you.
The girl that you met at the bar last night and the girl you'll be texting the next morning are usually very different. At the bar she was laughing and dancing and having fun. The next day, she might be doing laundry or dealing with some life problem. Because of this, she will be much less responsive towards you.
So the idea is that by reminding her of something funny, or exciting, or thrilling that happened the previous night, you force her to access that memory in her brain and thus "callback" the emotion associated with it.
Plus, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It's kind of like the whole Pavlov's dog thing.
Well the first crucial step is to have a good time with her or at least notice the things that are making her have a good time.
This step is very important because if she didn't have fun, then there won't be anything to reference.
OK, so assuming you got the first step down, the next step is simply to send her a text that reminds her to what happen. It's best to use specific examples here.
Don't just say, "Hey, it's Joe. Sure had a great time last night!"
That's not very compelling and doesn't really reference anything.
Instead try to reference a specific event or thing.
For example, you could say something like this,
"How fun was the party last night? Remember when you..."
This is a much better text message that will get her to remember what happened last night and get back into the same state.
Wouldn't it be cool if you could get her to feel the same way about you that she did last night when you two first met? (To learn more about if a girl doesn't text you back, check out my article on what to text girls.)
Well, there is a way. It's called Call back humor. Call back humor is a flirting technique that you can use to bring a girl back into the same emotional state of mind that she was in when she first met you.
The girl that you met at the bar last night and the girl you'll be texting the next morning are usually very different. At the bar she was laughing and dancing and having fun. The next day, she might be doing laundry or dealing with some life problem. Because of this, she will be much less responsive towards you.
So the idea is that by reminding her of something funny, or exciting, or thrilling that happened the previous night, you force her to access that memory in her brain and thus "callback" the emotion associated with it.
Plus, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It's kind of like the whole Pavlov's dog thing.
Well the first crucial step is to have a good time with her or at least notice the things that are making her have a good time.
This step is very important because if she didn't have fun, then there won't be anything to reference.
OK, so assuming you got the first step down, the next step is simply to send her a text that reminds her to what happen. It's best to use specific examples here.
Don't just say, "Hey, it's Joe. Sure had a great time last night!"
That's not very compelling and doesn't really reference anything.
Instead try to reference a specific event or thing.
For example, you could say something like this,
"How fun was the party last night? Remember when you..."
This is a much better text message that will get her to remember what happened last night and get back into the same state.
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